The unexpected isn't always "bad"

A lot things in our life come unplanned. The world does not revolve around us and I think people tend to forget that quite often. We as a species want order, we want familiarity, we want safety...but we as a single entity with limited control over what happens to us, can't promise for something to go smooth all the time. So when something "bad" happens you shouldn't look at it as a bad thing cause then it might alter your mood. We should look at the unexpected as chance. When you become more open to the unexpected, you welcome luck. We don't know everything and sometimes these random little episodes show us a thing or two, maybe not right away but it does eventually. Learn to look through the lens like this and you'll be a little closer to seeing and thinking like an optimist :)